Saturday, March 18, 2017

Boomerang Love

Can a person change?  That seems to be the question lately.  I believe a person can change.  What if I use the word "Grow" instead of "change"?  Would that make it easier to accept?  Can a person grow and work on their failings?  I like to think they can.  I know I'm trying.

We didn't end up here just by natural default settings.  We are all a work in progress and subject to the influences in our lives.  If we are influenced better, then aren't the results better?  If we allow ourselves to be challenged in certain areas and allow that painful process to produce effective change, isn't that growth?

Perhaps growth only comes through trauma.  When forced into a corner and the options are grim, then effective change can occur.  I think there is validity in that as well.  I think we all change if we want something badly enough.

Just my .02

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